Soho Nights: Domaine Pichard at L’Escargot

Wednesday night found us in Soho’s Grande dame, L’Escargot, where the room brimmed with elegant, weather-defying guests (think sunshine, thunder, umbrellas, and still immaculate hair). Glasses of Domaine Pichard flowed, conversation sparkled, and the bar team was a study in unflappable chic. Between salmon “snails” and perfectly bite-sized croque monsieur, the evening reminded us why September in London, with unpredictable skies and all, can feel like the very best season of all.

Our merry crew barely blinked at the meteorological theatrics (only three last-minute cancellations, bravo, troopers). Inside, the Snail Bar’s skylit ceilings glowed against the stormy sky, while sixty or so guests filled the room with the kind of easy, lively chatter that makes introductions effortless and the evening stretch long after you meant to leave. Behind the bar, Feban was unflappable, Ferdi kept the whole show humming, and Stanley (mixologist, magician, miracle-worker) dropped in to lend his alchemy. Even Mr Brian Clivaz himself swept by to say hello, which added just the right touch of stardust.

The night’s vinous star was Domaine Pichard, presented by our friend Eva Akerholm, known to some of you from our lockdown wellness podcasts. (Wellness, it turns out, is perfectly compatible with very good wine.) We sipped both white and red: organic, elegant, and the kind of wines that make conversation lift a few notches. As for the food, it was French comfort with a playful wink: “snails” of smoked salmon and cream cheese (our only mollusc nod), golden cheese straws, excellent nuts, sausage rolls, and cocktail sausages. To keep us vertical, there were miniature croque monsieurs, the melt-in-your-mouth sort that vanish in two bites and leave you plotting your next one. The combination, lively guests, generous wine, impeccable staff, and a room that feels equal parts glamorous and conspiratorial made for an evening that was, in a word, sparkling. Our huge thanks to Domaine Pichard for the wine, to the L’Escargot team for their seamless care, and to all of you for bringing the sunshine inside, umbrellas and all. Here’s to the season ahead, may it be as full, fizzing, and delicious as last Wednesday night.

Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

<p>Barbara is a classic entrepreneur; her career has been defined by a series of iconic start-ups within telecoms, entertainment, and fashion. She leads Investor Relations for a London-based consultancy raising capital for entrepreneurs. Alongside financial matchmaking, her passion is connecting people in person. Barbara’s innate sense of what it takes to fit people together, with a flair for hosting exquisite events, makes her a social anchor for all that know her.</p>

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✨Tea, Silks & Secrets✨

Tuesday 22nd July | 6:30 pm – 8:30 pm
Lucy Wong |
33-34 Rathbone Place l London W1T 1JN

Step into the world of vintage glamour for an unforgettable evening…

Imagine if you will that you’ve somehow been summoned to Lucy Wong’s Fitzrovia apartment for the ultimate soiree, with the who’s who of London’s 1950s socialite scene. But alas, Lucy, our elusive hostess, has just flitted off to another party, leaving only the scent of jasmine and a room full of her most attractive, unattached friends at a drinks party that could last until the early morning hours!

Tucked away near fashionable Charlotte Street, Lucy Wong is not the sort of place discovered by accident (unless you’ve mistaken it for a Shanghai speakeasy). Inspired by the timeless love story, A World of Suzie Wong. With its atmospheric nod to 1950s Hong Kong, the bar oozes Eastern charm, sensual shadows, and the kind of lantern light that encourages secrets.

If the gorgeous interiors aren’t enough to seduce you into this social, you’ll be greeted with a welcome glass of fizz to set the mood. Feeling peckish? You can order some handcrafted dim sum, so authentic it might start whispering Cantonese.

Rendezvous is renowned for hosting the friendliest, most stylish parties in town. Which is to say: good-looking people, decent lighting, and the kind of conversation that starts civilised and ends somewhere between flirtation and philosophy. Do bring someone charming of the opposite gender; it helps the alchemy and sets the scene for cocktails, conversations, and wonderful new connections.

 Date: Tuesday 22 July 2025 

Party Size: 70

Cost: Tickets are sold in pairs male/female for £80 but please contact us for single tickets at £50 on barbara@rendezvous-london.com

Dress code: Elegant Smart

Whats included: A welcome drink and a private room full of eligible guests.

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Code:Silks

Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

<p>Barbara is a classic entrepreneur; her career has been defined by a series of iconic start-ups within telecoms, entertainment, and fashion. She leads Investor Relations for a London-based consultancy raising capital for entrepreneurs. Alongside financial matchmaking, her passion is connecting people in person. Barbara’s innate sense of what it takes to fit people together, with a flair for hosting exquisite events, makes her a social anchor for all that know her.</p>

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Uncork the Unexpected: A Wine-Tasting Party

Uncork the Unexpected: A Wine-Tasting Party

Thursday 27th March | 6.00 pm – 8.00 pm
28:50 By Night | 76 Jason Ct, | Wigmore St | W1U 2SJ

Picture this: It’s a balmy Thursday evening in March; the teasing promise of spring is in the air, and you’re sipping exquisite wine with fellow wine enthusiasts. Sounds divine, doesn’t it?

Upon arrival, you’re greeted with a sparkling glass of Prosecco, shimmering with the promise of the evening ahead. But this isn’t just another wine-tasting event—it’s a curated experience. A perfect blend of fine wines, live jazz, and the chance to connect with like-minded connoisseurs who share your appreciation for life’s finer things.

Sommelier Expertise
Our guide through our tantalizing taste-off is 28-50’s Head Sommelier, shaking things up with an unexpected twist. You’ll explore the intriguing profiles of a mysterious white and a bold red. No labels, no preconceptions—just pure sensory exploration.

As you savour each sip, you’ll feel like a detective on a delicious mission, guessing the origins and characteristics of these exquisite wines. And here’s the best part: whether you’re a wine aficionado or a curious beginner, everyone’s palate is equally welcome.

An Evening to Remember
The event unfolds in the exclusive setting of 28-50’s Jazz Club, which is exclusively ours for two glorious hours. Afterwards, you’re welcome to stay and settle in for the night, letting the live music provide the perfect backdrop as you chat, laugh, and spark new connections.

This is more than just a wine tasting; it’s an experience. So, dust off your favourite outfit, polish up your wine knowledge (or not—we won’t judge!), and prepare for an evening of delectable sipping, lively music, and fun.

 Date: Thursday 27th March 2025 

Party Size: 70

Cost: Tickets are sold in pairs male/female for £90 but please contact us for single tickets at £55 on barbara@rendezvous-london.com

Dress code: Elegant Smart

Whats included: Tutored wine tasting, tasty snacks, and eligible guests.

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Code: Wine

Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

<p>Barbara is a classic entrepreneur; her career has been defined by a series of iconic start-ups within telecoms, entertainment, and fashion. She leads Investor Relations for a London-based consultancy raising capital for entrepreneurs. Alongside financial matchmaking, her passion is connecting people in person. Barbara’s innate sense of what it takes to fit people together, with a flair for hosting exquisite events, makes her a social anchor for all that know her.</p>

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Living it up in L’Escargot

Wednesday 4th September  l 6:30 pm – 8:30 pm
L’Escargot l 48 Greek Street | London | W1D 4EF

And so to L’Escargot, following in the footsteps of an eclectic group of previous patrons including Princess Diana, Coco Chanel and the Kray twins, and up to the vibrant Snail Bar. The secret location on the top floor of L’Escargot’s glorious Georgian townhouse provides a bright and airy atmosphere with its stunning skylight ceilings.

With 60 guests making themselves perfectly at home last Wednesday night for our first Rendezvous party of the Autumn season, the packed room meant you couldn’t help but turn one way to say hello to one group of fun-loving guests or turn another and be switched into another lively conversation with a completely different group. 

Pink Diesel rosé proved to be the perfect welcome glass, blended with pure love to #FUELGOODTIMES. Pale in colour, with notes of honey, peach, and citrus, it’s delightful blend of 35% Syrah, 35% Grenache, and 30% Cinsault grape varieties and a great accompaniment to the cheese straws, cocktail sausages, truffle nuts, and delicious croque-monsieur’s we nibbled on.

Thank you to team L’Escargot for truly stunning service.  Head barman Stan hats off to you for utterly unflustered and superb bar service. Team Rendezvous (Lou, Isabella, and I) had the best time, and we hope you did too! 

Many thanks to Pink Diesel for fuelling the occasion.

Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

<p>Barbara is a classic entrepreneur; her career has been defined by a series of iconic start-ups within telecoms, entertainment, and fashion. She leads Investor Relations for a London-based consultancy raising capital for entrepreneurs. Alongside financial matchmaking, her passion is connecting people in person. Barbara’s innate sense of what it takes to fit people together, with a flair for hosting exquisite events, makes her a social anchor for all that know her.</p>

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We Loved The Dolce Vita

Tuesday 1st August 2023
The Italian Greyhound, Marylebone

Our August Dolce Vita party at The Italian Greyhound, set off at pace with exciting three-minute Get-Chatting tables! We know initial conversations can sometimes be a challenge, so special guest Relationship Coach Mick Johal, injected fun, quirky sure-fire questions to ensure light-hearted entertainment to the max!

The key to successful dating is curiosity and a genuine interest in getting to know someone new. Our carefully crafted prompts helped our Chatters unleash their personalities and find common ground. Laughter filled the room as everyone enthusiastically shared their answers and experiences.

Here are some of the conversation starters that got the ball rolling:

  • “If you could possess any superpower, which would you choose and why?”
  • “Let’s talk travel! What’s your dream destination, and what would you love to explore there?”
  • “Foodie alert! What would it be if you had to survive on just one type of cuisine for the rest of your life?”
  • “Adventure awaits! What’s the most daring thing you’ve done or always wanted to do?”
  • “If you could step back in time and meet any historical figure, who would it be, and what would you ask them?”
  • “Time to unleash your inner performer! What’s your go-to karaoke song?”
  • “Hidden talents are the best! Share something quirky or unique about yourself.”
  • “Imagine being stranded on a deserted island. What three items would you want by your side?”

As the night progressed, genuine connections were forged, strangers turned into friends, and the chemistry was right for some potential matches. Our singles mingled, laughed, and discovered shared interests, making The Italian Greyhound the perfect backdrop for this unforgettable evening.

We could feel the magic in the air, whether it was a shared passion for adventure, a mutual love for Italian cuisine, or the spark ignited by laughter and wit. Thank you to Tom and Pedro who kept the drinks flowing. We enjoyed a charming 2021 vintage of Côtes de Provence, L’Écorce Buissonnière, perfect for a summer evening.

We can’t wait to host another night of fun and heartwarming conversations where singles can explore the exciting world of potential relationships in the spirit of curiosity and genuine interest.

Until then, let new conversations lead the way!

Some lovely feedback:

Hi Barbara

Thank you so much for your huge effort arranging these parties, so great as a singleton to speak to others in the same boat. A lovely gentleman even popped me in a taxi using his Uber account, how very kind of him!

Thanks lots for everything.

L xx


Hi Barbara,

Thank you for a fun evening last night. It was my second event, and I’m finding myself a little less intimidated and even approached a man to initiate a conversation! Baby steps.

R x


Hi Barbara,

Just to say thank you for such a well-arranged evening. A really interesting group. I made connections with some women and also guys from a networking view and possibly friends. 

Regards, R


Hi Barbara,

Thank you for yet another great evening! The venue worked very well, it was light and airy, there was a good mix of people, and everybody was very friendly.

J x


Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

Barbara Brudenell-Bruce

<p>Barbara is a classic entrepreneur; her career has been defined by a series of iconic start-ups within telecoms, entertainment, and fashion. She leads Investor Relations for a London-based consultancy raising capital for entrepreneurs. Alongside financial matchmaking, her passion is connecting people in person. Barbara’s innate sense of what it takes to fit people together, with a flair for hosting exquisite events, makes her a social anchor for all that know her.</p>

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