Hello Spring (The 50s & 60s edition)

Rendezvous has a bit of a reputation for being a +40s sort of affair, which is fair enough, as it happens, but it’s no longer the whole story. These days, we’re very much in the business of 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s, neatly gathered into their own charming tribes, because life stages matter and so does meeting people who simply get it. Eleven years in, our original 50s crowd have glided, stylishly, obviously, into their 60s and feel less like guests, more like old friends. And with our partnership with Maclynn, we’ve been able to widen the circle still further, creating more room, more parties, more possibilities. Which is how we found ourselves hosting our very first evening just for the 50s and 60s, a sold-out, fizzing, rather fabulous night full of people all after the same elusive thing, and very much enjoying finding it.

And then there were the Dark ’n’ Stormy’s, long, gleaming glasses of deep, golden rum and ginger beer that were consumed with reassuring pleasure, exactly as a long drink should be. Made with Tidal Rum, this was no ordinary mix: a Caribbean blend finished in Jersey with wild coastal botanicals, which sounds faintly eccentric but tastes rather wonderful, smoky, saline, just a little bit intriguing. Guests kept coming back for more (always a good sign), drawn in by something that felt both comforting and quietly adventurous. Not your usual sugary rum situation, but something far more grown-up, the sort of drink you linger over, ideally with excellent company, which, as it happened, we had in abundance.
And then, of course, there was the setting, because a night like this rather depends on it. 12 Hay Hill, quietly doing its thing since 2015, is the very definition of quiet luxury: elegant without fanfare, softly lit, and effortlessly conducive to conversation. The room has that rare ability to put people at ease almost instantly, which, for a room full of people often meeting for the first time, is no small feat.
We were looked after brilliantly by the team throughout, orchestrated with elegant precision by Greta, and anchored at the bar by Botond, together with Taylor, Abi and Esme. Everything ran so smoothly, even the welcome at the door set the tone: warm, relaxed, and just the right side of friendly. Our own team, Anna, Hannah and Liv, were, as ever, a dream to have on the ground, making sure everything flowed exactly as it should, alongside a welcome appearance from Maclynn’s A-team, Sarah-Helen and Frankie, who spent the evening chatting with guests and adding an extra layer of sparkle.

The food, too, struck that perfect balance between elegant and reassuringly generous: truffle and Parmesan arancini that disappeared almost instantly, duck bonbons that were widely admired, and croques that felt satisfyingly indulgent in the best possible way.
And perhaps the most telling thing was the feeling in the room. Guests described it as “spot on”, “lovely”, “nicely relaxed” = that elusive combination of ease and energy that’s so hard to manufacture and so obvious when it’s there. There was a genuine warmth to the evening, a sense of people being open, engaged, and pleased to be exactly where they were. As one of the venue team observed, this is a group that shows up, thoughtful, well-dressed, and fully present, and it would be very hard to disagree. All in all, while Rendezvous has long brought every age group together, this was our first evening created entirely for the 50s and 60s – and we suspect, very much the first of many.

A Night for Curious Hearts

February in London is a threshold month. The cold hasn’t quite packed up, but the light shifts. Daffodils appear. Coats feel lighter. The city begins, quietly, to wake.

We leaned into that in-between moment with an intimate evening at The Italian Greyhound, and what unfolded was, frankly, rather lovely.

By early evening, the private room was humming. A welcome glass in hand, soulful music drifting but never dominating, and a steadily filling room of warm, intelligent, refreshingly open guests. An unseasonably glorious 18-degree day helped. People arrived smiling, slightly sun-flushed, shrugging off coats and any lingering February reluctance.

Within the hour, the room was buzzing. Seventy-five guests, new faces, easy laughter, and that rare, delicious feeling when a space simply works. No awkward clustering. No one glued to their phone. Just great conversations.

The food did exactly what it needed to do. The Italian Greyhound’s signature thin, crisp rectangular pizzas, light and unfussy, cut into perfect sharing slices, circulated efficiently and disappeared almost as quickly as they arrived. Wine flowed. Hunger of all kinds was satisfied.

Service was seamless. Hanna and her team, Helen, Auri and Kavita, handled the evening with calm charm and enviable efficiency. Meanwhile, Team Rendezvous x Maclynn, myself, Hannah, Anna and Liv, kept the door flowing and introductions natural, ensuring no one hovered awkwardly for more than a heartbeat.

Our collaboration with Maclynn continues to feel like a natural evolution. Their bespoke, psychology-led matchmaking paired with our curated in-person events creates something balanced, structured for those who like it, spontaneity for those who do not. Together, we support people at different life stages, from ambitious professionals to those re-entering the dating world, without it ever feeling forced.

The result? A room that felt considered, open and gently electric.

By the end of the night, there were countless number exchanges, new friendships forming, and a few couples slipping off into the Marylebone evening for dinner elsewhere.

Some nights feel like a turning point. This was one of them.

Nobody Meant to Stay That Late

Wine & cheese pairing · 50s & 60s · 25 guests · Hyde Park Gastropub

Twenty-five guests gathered in a private room of a Hyde Park gastro pub for an evening devoted to British wine, excellent cheese, and the sort of conversation that becomes easier after the second glass.

The room, warm lighting, polished wood, and just enough candlelight, quickly softened into laughter and introductions. Gentle “musical chairs” rotations moved the evening along, with enough structure to keep things lively, never enough to interrupt a good conversation.

Guiding the pairings was Aimee, whose easy charm made the wine feel approachable and the cheeses dangerously moreish. Sinodun Hill goat’s cheese alongside Silver Reign Brut. Montgomery’s Cheddar paired with Bacchus 2022. Beenleigh Blue with a Lussac Grenache that persuaded several guests to order another glass.

What lingered was the atmosphere: relaxed, funny, and unexpectedly warm. People arrived slightly nervous and left comparing notes, swapping stories, and making plans to meet again.

One guest ended the evening deep in backgammon with a charming regular from the pub, somehow turning a wine tasting into the beginning of a new weekly tradition. Others stayed behind talking about Ireland, galleries, history, pubs, and who they secretly wished they’d had longer to sit beside.

Nobody really wanted the evening to end. Which is usually how you know it worked

The Conversation Salon

Champagne tasting · 30s–60s · 67 Pall Mall × Maclynn × Rendezvous

For one evening, the elegant rooms of 67 Pall Mall became a salon devoted to something increasingly rare: good conversation.

A lively mix of 67 Pall Mall members and Rendezvous guests gathered in St James’s, united by curiosity, excellent champagne, and the possibility of meeting someone unexpected. Fortunately, a tube strike that had threatened proceedings was called off, allowing everyone to arrive in good spirits and with plenty of time for a glass in hand.

The evening began with Lydia Hoey of Maclynn, who shared thoughtful observations on what makes conversations memorable. Not networking, not interviewing, not waiting for your turn to speak, but the simple art of asking better questions and listening well. It set the tone perfectly.

Guests were seated at intimate tables of four, creating a relaxed atmosphere where conversations could unfold naturally within the group. Gentle rotations between tastings ensured everyone met new faces without the awkwardness often associated with structured introductions.

The team from 67 Pall Mall, Alex, Lucina, Harriet and Renata, were warm and welcoming throughout the evening. Alex shared the story of the club itself, founded in 2015 as a home for wine lovers and now with locations across the world. For many guests, it was their first glimpse inside a club that manages to feel both deeply knowledgeable and remarkably unpretentious.

As for the tasting itself, what many had expected to be wine turned out to be three exceptional champagnes: Nathalie Falmet’s Le Val Cornet Brut 2020, Yann Alexandre’s Blanc de Blancs Brut Millésime 2013, and Laurent-Perrier’s Brut Millésime 2018. Alongside them came trays of beetroot and blackberry tartlets, sweetcorn and dill fairy cakes, and impossibly moreish cheese gougères.

The conversations proved just as varied. Travel, work, family, books, cities, relationships and future plans all surfaced as strangers became closer to friends.

Afterwards, very few people seemed ready to leave. Guests drifted upstairs to join members of the club for another glass, continuing conversations that had begun downstairs. New friendships were formed, invitations exchanged, and plans quietly made.

As one guest remarked afterwards, it was It felt less like speed dating and more like elegant speed chatting.

Which felt exactly right.

A Table Set for Indulgence

Seated tasting · 40s & 50s · 18 guests · Marylebone

Eighteen guests gathered around a long table in Marylebone, the open kitchen flickering quietly in the background. A welcome glass of prosecco set things in motion, and from there, the evening unfolded at an easy, considered pace.

Guests moved between tastings, six introductions in all, each accompanied by a new pairing and conversation. Guiding it was Head Sommelier Terry Botta. Raised in Paris and, somewhat improbably, first trained in aeronautical and space engineering, he now brings that same precision and curiosity to the table.

Brillat Savarin with Chablis Domaine Ellevin 2023 to begin. Goat’s cheese with Vouvray “Les Coteaux Tufiers” 2024. And finally, 24-month Comté with Lussac Saint-Émilion Château Lucas 2016, which drew the table into a brief, appreciative silence.

Served with warm sourdough and artisan crackers, it was the sort of evening that encourages people to linger. Guests drifted off little by little, numbers exchanged and good feelings in tow, while a smaller group stayed on, ordering more wine and generous sharing boards, making the most of pairings they weren’t quite ready to leave behind.